Don’t Be Yourself Always

There are times where in you’ll have to adapt to your surroundings. You will have to forget about what you are or your personality when it doesn’t fit the situation you’re in. This is one thing I always remind myself of. As an ESL (English as a Second Language) teacher, I need to be lively, or energetic and to be even funny because the students might find the class boring if I’m being serious while teaching them. But as someone who’s an ambivert, but with 60% introverted-ness, I find it as my biggest struggle in teaching ESL to foreign students to be that full of energy and funny teacher and at the same time with substance, especially to the ones who don’t really intend to learn the language and it’s only their parents who want them to study. I really have to do my best to  make them motivated or interested in learning, otherwise I’m not an effective teacher.

I don’t feel comfortable in opening myself, or being silly or funny with someone whom I’m not close with, or unless I’ve spent quite sometime with them, so building a rapport with the students is quite not an easy thing for me to do. However if the students are really determined to improve their skills, I can just be my serious self because they focus more on the lessons than on how I am while teaching.

Nonetheless, like I’ve said, I always remind myself about this, and since my day 1 on this field I’ve been practicing “not being myself all the time” at work. Luckily, there have been some improvements, and one proof of this are my former students who still keep in touch with me online. There are still times, though, where in I still find it awkward to be that funny- interesting – lively teacher, but I believe that if I keep doing this, in no time, I’ll finally be good at adjusting my personality accordingly.

I’m not sure if there are people who can actually relate to this in this particular aspect of ourselves, but I’m more than happy to share this since once again, I was able to put my thoughts regarding one of my struggles into words. So .. whether you can relate or not, I hope it will teach you one thing or two.♥

16 thoughts on “Don’t Be Yourself Always

    1. Wow! Yeah .. It’s sometimes weird that we end up in jobs which don’t suit our personalities but I think it’s better that way since it’s outside our comfort zone. I’m not really shy in general, though, but I can easily get intimidated sometimes. Anyway, I hope you’re doing good at your job. ☺

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      1. It is ironic. 😁 Hmm.. That’s great you think you’re doing well for it means you’re positive, and that you’re still there because that means you just have to continue what you’re doing. 😊

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  1. I agree! As a supervisor, even if you want to say what’s on your mind, you have to package it in a way that’s not going to be misinterpreted by your associates, in real life and online. You always have to think of how they will take your word. Not that I am not being honest, but I have to make sure that whar I say can not be taken against me. It’s not an easy task but I got used to it.

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    1. This one has something to do with how we handle people but still connected to adapting to the environment, and just like acting that personality which suits our jobs description, we have to make sure we behave or act accordingly.

      I’m glad to know you are already used to what you need to do at your work. 😊☺

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  2. I think I commented on this last time. Not sure why it’s not showing or maybe it’s still held in moderation.

    Anyway, it’s good that you’re now adding images to your post. It adds value to the post. Hope all is well with you!

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    1. I’m not sure if you have commented, but thank you for commenting again. 🙂
      It’s really better to have featured images, but then sometimes, I just find it hard to find a suitable one.
      Yes, all is well with me and I hope everything’s well there also.

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